PORNOGRAPHY – (UNDERSTANDING THE TRAP AND FINDING FREEDOM)

 DAY 2

PORNOGRAPHY – Seeing It for What It Truly Is

Before freedom can begin, you must first come into truth.

Many people are not free, not because they don’t love God, but because they have not clearly understood what they are dealing with. Pornography thrives where there is confusion, silence, and wrong understanding.

HEALING THROUGH THE LIVING WORD WORD EDITION. APRIL TEACHING SERIES

THE IMAGEMAKERS WORLD

HEALING THROUGH THE LIVING WORD

WORD EDITION. APRIL TEACHING SERIES

DAY 1

HOW HEALING COMES BY THE WORD

“He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave.” — Psalm 107:20

Healing through the Word is not a religious idea—it is a spiritual law. God’s Word carries His power, and whatever God sends His Word to do, it accomplishes. Healing, therefore, begins with receiving the Word, not waiting for a feeling.

THE PSALM FOR TODAY

Psalm 3

“Lord, how are they increased that trouble me…”—I declare over you, no matter how many rise against you, they will not prevail; every opposition around your life loses strength today.

“Many say… there is no help for him in God.”—every voice speaking defeat over you is silenced, and I prophesy: help will arise for you suddenly, and God will prove Himself in your situation

PORNOGRAPHY – Understanding the Trap and Finding Freedom (INTRODUCTION)

 THE IMAGEMAKERS WORLD

APRIL WORD EDITION

DAY 1

PORNOGRAPHY – Understanding the Trap and Finding Freedom (INTRODUCTION)

This month, we are addressing a subject many avoid but many are silently battling—pornography. This is not a message of condemnation, but a call to truth, healing, and freedom. If we are going to raise a generation that reflects God’s image, then we must confront anything that is distorting that image.

Pornography is more than an act; it is a system that targets the mind, reshapes desires, and gradually enslaves the will. It often begins subtly, but over time it creates a cycle—urge, indulgence, guilt, and repetition. Many people love God, yet feel trapped in this cycle, wondering why they can’t seem to break free.

THE PSALMS FOR THE DAY

 Psalm 25:4–5 (NKJV)

“Show me Your ways, O LORD;

Teach me Your paths.

Lead me in Your truth and teach me,

For You are the God of my salvation;

On You I wait all the day.”

Lord, today we ask as David did—show us Your ways. When we don’t know which path to take, teach us. Lead us in Your truth and keep us from error. Let Your voice be clearer than every other voice around us. We depend on You, the God of our salvation. Guide our steps today, and let Your peace confirm the way we should go. Amen.

COUPLES THERAPY

Couples, be aware: “The grass is greenest where you water it.” This simple truth carries a deep lesson for every relationship. Many marriages today are quietly weakened by the “greener grass” myth—the idea that someone else, somewhere else, would make us happier. But the reality is this: no relationship thrives by comparison; it thrives by cultivation.

THE PSALM FOR THE DAY

“The righteous cry, and the Lord heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles. The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the Lord delivereth him out of them all.” — Psalm 34:17–19

As Your Word says, Lord, that when the righteous cry, You hear and You deliver them out of all their troubles, I pray for Your people today—hear their cry and bring them out of every situation troubling their lives in the name of Jesus.

As it is written that You are near to the brokenhearted, I pray for everyone carrying pain, silent tears, and heavy burdens—draw near to them today, comfort them, and let Your presence bring healing and peace in the name of Jesus.

Every chain of bondage, every oppression of the enemy, every yoke holding Your people captive—by the authority in Your Word, I command: be broken now in the name of Jesus!

As Your Word cannot fail, I decree that today marks the end of every long-standing battle in the lives of Your people. Let there be divine intervention, supernatural deliverance, and undeniable testimonies.

Thank You, Father, because You have heard us.

In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.

WISDOM SERIES. ( POVERTY MINDSET. PART 3)

 One of the strongest signs of a poverty mindset is how people relate with opportunity. It is not always that opportunities are absent—sometimes they are ignored, doubted, or mishandled. A poverty mindset questions possibilities before even exploring them. It says, “It won’t work,” “People like us don’t do that,” or “Let me just stay where I’m safe.” Over time, this thinking quietly shuts doors that were never even tried.

There is also the issue of short-term thinking. When the mind is conditioned by lack, it prioritizes immediate relief over long-term results. It chooses what solves today’s discomfort without considering tomorrow’s consequences. This is why some people struggle to invest, build, or delay gratification. Yet Scripture says, “He that observeth the wind shall not sow; and he that regardeth the clouds shall not reap” (Ecclesiastes 11:4). If you keep waiting for perfect conditions, you may never move—and if you never move, nothing changes.

Another dimension is dependency. A poverty mindset can make people rely heavily on external help—waiting for someone to come through, a miracle to happen, or luck to change things. While help is important and divine intervention is real, overdependence weakens personal responsibility.

The truth is, God often blesses the work of your hands, not just your wishes. “The Lord shall command the blessing upon thee in thy storehouses, and in all that thou settest thine hand unto…” (Deuteronomy 28:8). There must be something in your hands for God to multiply.

It also shows in inconsistency. Starting things and not finishing them. Being excited at the beginning but losing discipline along the way. A poverty mindset loves motivation but avoids structure. It celebrates intention but struggles with execution. But growth does not respond to excitement—it responds to consistency. “Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful” (1 Corinthians 4:2). Faithfulness in little, repeated over time, is what produces visible change.

Breaking out of this level requires more than awareness and renewal—it requires action. Deliberate, sometimes uncomfortable action. Start where you are. Use what you have. Build gradually. Learn to take calculated risks. Develop discipline. Stay consistent even when results are not immediate. Progress may be slow, but it is still progress.

Because at this stage, the question is no longer, “Do I know better?” The real question is, “Will I do better?”

COUPLES THERAPY

SILENT SEX STRUGGLES MARRIED PEOPLE GO THROUGH

Many married people are dealing with sexual struggles they never talk about. Behind the smiles, routines, and shared responsibilities are unspoken frustrations, unmet needs, and private battles that slowly affect connection and intimacy. Sex in marriage is more than a physical act—it is deeply emotional, psychological, and relational. When something is off in that area, it often spills into other parts of the relationship. The truth is, these struggles are common, but silence makes them feel isolating. The goal is not perfection, but awareness, honesty, and a willingness to grow together.

A spouse who wants too much sex can make the other feel used, especially when emotional connection is lacking. It begins to feel like a demand rather than an expression of love. In such situations, couples need to intentionally build connection outside the bedroom—shared activities, conversations, and bonding moments that restore balance and deepen intimacy beyond physical needs.

On the other hand, a spouse who shows little or no interest in sex can create frustration and emotional distance. This may be caused by stress, unresolved issues, hormonal changes, or negative feelings toward a partner. Opening up honest conversations, addressing underlying issues, and understanding each other’s needs can help restore desire and remind both partners that intimacy plays an important role in marriage.

Poor personal hygiene can quietly destroy attraction. It becomes difficult to enjoy closeness when one partner neglects basic self-care. Couples should encourage each other in a loving way—create routines, make effort in appearance, and understand that cleanliness and presentation can strongly influence desire and connection.

Lust is another hidden battle that weakens commitment. When attention is constantly given to others—through conversations, social media, or fantasies—it takes away from what should be nurtured at home. Lust loses its power when it is no longer fed. Choosing to see others with respect and redirecting focus to one’s spouse strengthens faithfulness.

Unmet sexual expectations often come from unspoken desires. Many couples struggle not because their needs are impossible, but because they are not communicated. Learning to express preferences, desires, and expectations in a respectful and loving way creates room for mutual satisfaction. At the same time, it is important to be attentive to your partner’s needs as well.

Memories of an ex can interfere with present intimacy, especially when comparisons creep in. Holding on to the past robs the present of its beauty. Letting go intentionally and appreciating your spouse for who they are helps retrain the mind and rebuild attraction.

Pornography creates a false reality that can disconnect partners from each other. It shifts attention away from real intimacy and replaces it with unrealistic expectations. Choosing real connection over illusion helps rebuild desire and emotional closeness.

Masturbation, when it replaces connection with a spouse, can create imbalance. It may feel easier, but it removes the opportunity for shared intimacy. Instead, couples can learn each other’s bodies and communicate openly about what brings pleasure, turning knowledge into connection rather than isolation.

Some men struggle with maintaining an erection, often due to anxiety or distraction. Since intimacy begins in the mind, relaxation and being present can make a significant difference. Letting go of pressure and focusing on connection rather than performance helps ease the tension.

For some women, overthinking becomes a barrier to fully enjoying intimacy. The mind races with responsibilities, insecurities, and distractions, making it hard to stay present. Learning to relax, feel safe, and focus on the moment is key to experiencing pleasure and connection.

Premature ejaculation can also create frustration, even when attraction is strong. Managing pace, taking breaks, and exploring different rhythms can help improve the experience for both partners while building confidence over time.

Low self-esteem affects how individuals show up in intimacy. When someone feels insecure about their body or performance, it reflects in their connection. Embracing one’s body, making effort in self-care, and affirming each other can rebuild confidence and strengthen attraction.

Affairs deeply damage intimacy by introducing distance, guilt, and broken trust. When attention is given elsewhere, it becomes difficult to connect at home. Ending such distractions and choosing to rebuild trust is essential for restoring any meaningful connection.

Finally, comparing your relationship with others can create unnecessary pressure. Every couple is different, and what works for one may not work for another. Instead of measuring your intimacy against outside stories, focus on building a connection that is authentic, fulfilling, and unique to your relationship.

I am DEBOLA PRAISE AINA

Relationships/Marriage catalyst and coach.

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WISDOM SERIES

In the journey of faith, God never designed His children to walk alone. He places believers within spiritual families and under the guidance of servants He has called to shepherd His people. This is what we call spiritual covering—a place where you are guided, nurtured, corrected, and protected as you grow in your walk with God.

THE PSALMS FOR THE DAY

 PSALM FOR THE DAY.

Psalm 71:13–21 (KJV)

13 Let them be confounded and consumed that are adversaries to my soul; let them be covered with reproach and dishonour that seek my hurt.

14 But I will hope continually, and will yet praise thee more and more.

15 My mouth shall shew forth thy righteousness and thy salvation all the day; for I know not the numbers thereof.

16 I will go in the strength of the Lord God: I will make mention of thy righteousness, even of thine only.

17 O God, thou hast taught me from my youth: and hitherto have I declared thy wondrous works.

18 Now also when I am old and greyheaded, O God, forsake me not; until I have shewed thy strength unto this generation, and thy power to every one that is to come.

19 Thy righteousness also, O God, is very high, who hast done great things: O God, who is like unto thee!

20 Thou, which hast shewed me great and sore troubles, shalt quicken me again, and shalt bring me up again from the depths of the earth.

21 Thou shalt increase my greatness, and comfort me on every side.

DAILY REMINDER

 

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

 There is a disturbing shift happening in society today, and many people are choosing to ignore it. Behaviors that once raised serious concern are now being normalized, defended, and sometimes even celebrated. Sadly, many young people are drifting into destructive lifestyles at ages when they should be learning discipline, character, and responsibility.

Across many communities, teenagers are increasingly involved in dangerous activities such as internet fraud (Yahoo Yahoo), prostitution, ritual practices for money, drug abuse, cultism, smoking, alcohol addiction, gambling, pornography, indecent dressing, and social media immorality. Some now measure success by how quickly they can make money illegally or how much attention they can attract online. Others chase unrealistic beauty standards through skin bleaching and provocative lifestyles, all in the name of popularity and acceptance.

WORD SERIES

Since yesterday, I have never been so bothered about parenting that I have been pouring my heart into this write up, hoping parents will see it, read it carefully, and reflect deeply on the responsibility that rests on their shoulders. Parenting is not just about bringing children into the world; it is about intentionally shaping the kind of human beings they become.

The things happening around us today should trouble every responsible parent. We are witnessing a generation growing up in an environment where wrong is gradually becoming normal and discipline is slowly disappearing. Many children are now being raised without clear boundaries, without strong moral guidance, and without the fear of consequences for their actions.

One of the most dangerous trends of our time is the growing celebration of wealth without questioning its source. Young people suddenly appear with expensive phones, flashy lifestyles, and unexplained money, yet instead of asking necessary questions, many adults simply admire the display. This silent approval sends a powerful message to the younger generation—that success matters more than character, and that money can silence moral concerns.

In the past, communities helped raise children. Elders corrected young people when they went astray, and such correction was respected. Today, the moment someone tries to correct a child, it often leads to arguments, insults, or even threats from the parents themselves. When correction is rejected, guidance disappears, and when guidance disappears, confusion begins to rule the lives of young people.

THE DEMONIC SERPENTINE SPIRIT BEHIND MASTURBATION. PART 1

 Let’s talk about important issues today.

MASTURBATION IS NOT A TEMPTATION

Mr. Michael and Abigail had been married for a few years. Abigail was a housewife, taking care of the children, while Michael went to work every day.

One evening, Michael returned home from work expecting “something light” from his wife after dinner, only for her to say, “Sweetheart, I already masturbated a few hours ago, so I’m not really in the mood right now.”

This was the fifth time Abigail had said this within three weeks. Clearly, she had replaced “Michael” with her fingers, aided by a newly purchased vibrator hidden somewhere in the house.

Michael was angry. He felt deprived of his right. As a Christian, he did not believe in cheating on his wife and did not want to be pushed in that direction, so he insisted she stop using the “evil” vibrator immediately.

DEAR SELFISH MEN

 DEAR MEN

SELFISH MEN

KNOW WHAT THEY WANT — AND THEY GO FOR IT

A selfish man is not confused about direction. He spends time alone with his thoughts, his values, his convictions, until clarity forms. He does not drift through life waiting for approval, permission, or consensus. He defines what matters to him before life begins making demands. Because when a man does not choose his priorities, the world will choose distractions for him.

A selfish man understands that desire without decision is just fantasy. He does not merely want a good marriage—he commits to becoming a good husband. He does not merely wish for success—he builds habits that support it. He does not pray vaguely and live randomly. His prayers are specific because his intentions are clear.

DEAR SELFISH MEN

 DEAR MEN

SELFISH MEN

HE CHOOSES TRUTH OVER PERFORMANCE.

DEAR MEN/HUSBAND

Just a few minutes ago, I wrapped up a session, and one truth sat heavily with me: many people—especially men—do not like to talk about their scars. In marriage, this silence is even deeper. Husbands would rather appear strong than admit they are struggling. Yet the truth is simple—when we share our real stories, people learn, and when husbands are honest, marriages heal.

Many men enter marriage carrying wounds from childhood, past relationships, disappointments, and unmet expectations. Instead of dealing with them, we hide them. We provide, we lead, we show up physically, but emotionally we stay guarded. We think being quiet is maturity. We think avoiding hard conversations is peace. But what we refuse to address in ourselves will eventually show up in our marriages—through anger, withdrawal, impatience, or emotional distance.

The pressure on husbands today is intense. Be the provider. Be strong. Be in control. Add to that the lies of living a fake life—comparing marriages, pretending all is well, hiding behind smiles—and slowly we drift from the mind of God for husbands. A man who cannot be honest with his own struggles will struggle to be emotionally present with his wife. A husband who hides his scars will unknowingly wound the woman he promised to love.

WORD FEAST

WORD FEAST

POSITIONED FOR WHAT IS AHEAD

DAY 5

Being positioned is not only about waiting, obeying, and remaining consistent; it is also about readiness of heart for fulfillment. Many pray for what is ahead but are unprepared for when it arrives. God does not only position us to receive; He positions us to carry. What He brings will rest on who you have become while waiting. “Prepare to meet thy God” is not a warning alone; it is an invitation to readiness. This year, may your heart be ready for what your prayers have been asking for.

Fulfillment often exposes motives. Some desire the promise more than the Promiser, the result more than the responsibility. But God prepares vessels before He pours new wine. “Who then is a faithful and wise servant?” Readiness is proven in humility, teachability, and reverence. When doors open, may pride not disqualify you. When answers come, may gratitude guard your heart. What is ahead will require character as much as faith.

AGENDA 2026

If you want people to listen when you talk, you must succeed and make money. Everyone talks. But not everyone is listened to. Most people get heard, not listened to. To hear is to know that someone is speaking. To listen is to understand what they say. If a wealthy man whispers in a market, the market will go quiet to hear what he has to say. Even if a broke man shouts in a library, he will be kicked out, because people want to listen to news, not noise. Money is news. Brokenness is noise. Be a newsmaker, not a noisemaker!

WORD FEAST

POSITIONED FOR WHAT IS AHEAD.

PART 1

Welcome to 2026. We step into this year with gratitude, humility, and expectation, knowing that a new season does not automatically produce new outcomes. What lies ahead responds to positioning. The future God has prepared is not accessed by excitement but by alignment. This year will reward those who are standing in the right place, with the right posture, and the right heart.

“I will stand upon my watch, and set me upon the tower, and will watch to see what He will say unto me…” Habakkuk understood that revelation does not chase people; people position themselves to receive it. He chose stillness over haste, elevation over noise, and attention over assumption. Before God spoke about what was ahead, the prophet took responsibility for where he was standing.

Entering 2026, many are eager to move, yet heaven often begins with stillness. “Be still, and know that I am God.” Stillness is not inactivity; it is focused alignment. When the soul is quiet, direction becomes clearer. When the heart is settled, instruction becomes easier to receive. May this year not rush you past moments that are meant to prepare you.

Positioning also demands awareness. “Take heed how ye hear.” Not everything heard is meant to be acted upon, and not every voice carries wisdom. As you stand watch this year, may discernment guard your decisions. May your ears be trained to recognize truth, and may your heart be preserved from confusion and emotional noise.

What is ahead may also require correction. Habakkuk expected an answer, even if it came with reproof. Maturity welcomes alignment. “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord.” Ordering implies adjustment. As you stand before God in this season, may pride not block instruction, and may fear not resist change.

I pray for you, that as you begin this year, your spirit will be alert and your vision sharpened. May you not miss divine signals. May delays turn into preparation, and waiting into wisdom. May God place you where His voice is clear and His purpose is certain.

As I conclude, I pray: Lord, as we stand watch in 2026, position us correctly for what is ahead. Set us on the tower where we can see, hear, and respond wisely. Align our hearts, steady our steps, and lead us into what You have prepared. Let this year answer to clarity, obedience, and grace. Amen.